Leadership Prompt Library

Ready-to-use AI prompts for engineering managers and tech leaders. Fill in the blanks, copy, and run in any AI assistant.

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1-on-1 Prep

Preparing for a difficult 1-on-1 with an underperformer

Use before a 1-on-1 where you need to address performance issues directly but compassionately. Best used after you've already given informal feedback at least once.

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1-on-1 Prep

30-day check-in with a new hire

Use at the 30-day mark for new hires. This is your best window to catch onboarding problems and set expectations before habits form.

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1-on-1 Prep

Skip-level 1-on-1 question bank

Use quarterly or when you suspect information isn't flowing up properly. Critical when you're new to a role managing managers.

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1-on-1 Prep

Re-onboarding someone returning from extended leave

Use before someone returns from parental leave, medical leave, sabbatical, or any absence longer than 4 weeks.

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Team Health

Team health assessment after a rough quarter

Use after a rough quarter, reorg, layoffs, or when you sense morale is low but can't pinpoint why.

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Team Health

Mediating conflict between two engineers

Use when conflict between team members is affecting team dynamics. Don't wait until it's a full crisis.

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Team Health

Rebuilding trust after layoffs

Use within the first week after layoffs. Speed matters — silence from leadership gets filled with rumors.

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Team Health

Diagnosing remote team disconnection

Use when remote team engagement drops or when onboarding remote team members who seem isolated.

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Incident Retrospectives

Blameless post-mortem facilitation guide

Use within 48 hours of incident resolution while details are fresh. Send the async template immediately, schedule the meeting for 2-3 days out.

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Incident Retrospectives

Identifying incident patterns across multiple post-mortems

Use quarterly when reviewing incident trends. Turns individual incidents into a strategic reliability narrative for leadership.

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Incident Retrospectives

Extracting and spreading learnings from an incident

Use after post-mortem is complete to spread learnings across the org. Most orgs do post-mortems but fail at cross-pollination.

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Technical Strategy

Tech debt prioritization framework

Use when planning a quarter and negotiating tech debt capacity with product. Having a framework prevents the annual 'we need to stop and rewrite everything' conversation.

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Technical Strategy

Build vs. buy decision framework

Use when evaluating vendors, considering building internal tools, or during architecture reviews. Forces structured thinking instead of engineer-default 'let's build it'.

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Technical Strategy

Architecture decision record (ADR) review

Use during architecture reviews or when a tech lead proposes a significant system change. Best used as async review before the meeting.

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Technical Strategy

Platform team pitch to leadership

Use when you've identified repeated toil across teams that a platform team could address. The pitch must speak business language, not engineer language.

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Hiring & Interviews

Structured interview rubric design

Use when opening a new role or when your current interview process has a high false-positive rate. Better signal = fewer mis-hires.

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Hiring & Interviews

Hiring pipeline analysis and optimization

Use when a role has been open for >6 weeks or when you're not getting quality candidates. Data-driven hiring beats gut feel.

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Hiring & Interviews

Closing a strong candidate who's comparing offers

Use after a strong onsite when you know the candidate has competing offers. The sell phase is where many engineering orgs lose top talent.

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Career Development

Building a promotion case

Use 2-3 months before a promotion cycle. A strong written case is the #1 factor in successful promotions — not the work itself.

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Career Development

Delivering difficult but growth-oriented feedback

Use when you've observed a pattern that needs addressing. Don't wait for performance review season — timely feedback is kind feedback.

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Career Development

Creating a growth framework for your team

Use when joining a new team without a clear ladder, or when your existing framework generates more confusion than clarity.

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Career Development

Retaining a flight risk

Use when you notice disengagement signals in a key team member. Acting early gives you options; acting after they have an offer gives you none.

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Stakeholder Communication

Writing an executive status update

Use weekly or bi-weekly for VP/C-level updates. The exec update is your team's marketing — it determines resourcing, attention, and air cover.

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Stakeholder Communication

Saying no to a stakeholder request

Use when you get an urgent request that would derail your team's commitments. The skill of saying no is the most important and least taught management skill.

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Stakeholder Communication

Cross-functional alignment when priorities clash

Use when cross-team work is stuck due to conflicting priorities. Most alignment problems are really communication problems — everyone optimizes for their own local metrics.

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Stakeholder Communication

Communicating an org change to your team

Use before any reorg, team split/merge, manager change, or reporting structure change. People handle change better when they hear it from their direct manager with context, not via an all-hands Slack message.

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